2-28-09

Went on Oprah's website and saw that Steve Harvey has a book out. I read the article and am very interested in reading his book now. He mentions how a woman needs to have higher standards when it comes to men. Not to go to bed with them until 90 days or so. I will admit I am totally guilty of that. I haven't ever been one to sleep around so in 23 years I don't even cover 2 hands. I see where I needed to have higher standards for myself. I think that is where alot of this boils down to, is self esteem. I told my mom I think its an awesome time in the world we are talking about way more things and we are able to help each other. I hope and pray that I am able to talk to my children and tell them how important it is to know thier self worth, which is very very high. I want them to realize their body is a temple and not just anyone gets the temple.

Which brings me to my drama girlfriend in FL, the girl called me at 12:56 am saying how she met some 22 yr old and how I needed to answer my phone so I could take her out of doing anything stupid but now I'll just have to bitch her out when I call her back. HUH? You have got to be kidding me. Lord have mercy!!! This is the same girl who just 3 days ago said she wasn't having sex for 6 months, how she's tired of guys thinking she's easy, talking like a pig to her, etc. Uh hello when you have no self respect that's exactly how others will treat you. I love her dearly, we have been there for each other for 16 years and it'll continue to be that way. So when I talk to her I'm gonna ask her what the hell is she thinking and tell her to go read the books I bought her cuz she hasn't learned a thing!!!

I would love to write more but I have another cold and I need to lay down.
So let's see what will today's affirmation be

I love and approve of myself, therefore I have high respect for myself.
That sounds good. I think I'll text my girls that and tell them to write it 1000 times!!
Be blessed!!!